I don’t know what happened to Christianity that we have such
a wrong attitude about our bodies. For
centuries, Christians have looked at the body as something to be ignored at
best, or seen as dirty and disgusting, at worst—and if we read the works of St.
Paul in a certain interpretation, all the evils of sin come from the desires of
our bodies that lead us astray.
I believe this is even more the case for women than men.
Women in Jewish and other cultures were considered contaminated and
unclean. Is it any wonder that women
have such negative feelings about their bodies? Back in the 1980s, the era of Jane Fonda workouts, a survey
found that 75 percent of women surveyed felt they were too fat, and more than
60 percent said they were dissatisfied with or ashamed of their stomach, hips
and thighs. Taking such negative information, many groups have worked to change
women’s attitudes, and today, there seems to be a healthier confidence about
and acceptance of our bodies just the way they are. But we still spend millions a year on
cosmetics, lotions and crèmes, clothes, and a growing number of cosmetic
surgeries.
If you have ever been to a foreign country, you will also
see that Americans seem more ashamed of their bodies than do most Europeans. There are more strictures here than there
that I think has been influenced by our Puritan heritage. Some American Christians believe that alcohol
itself is evil, for instance. A trip to
most European countries without enjoying the local wine or ale with the
residents would be unthinkable to the rest of us.
So we seem to have a push-pull attitude about our bodies and
what’s good about them.
But this is not what God intended. First with creation, God pronounced all that
was made Very Good. Jesus fought the
attitudes of the chief priests and scribes that his disciples didn’t ritually
wash before eating, that he ate and drank, and did not abstain from enjoying
these gifts of God. And God made sure
that the Messiah given to us was embodied in every way. Like the rest of us, He
enjoyed quiet time, got tired of the crowds, played with children who came to
him, prayed, he was sometimes sad and angry, and he mourned the death of his
friend Lazarus. Finally, He was cruelly executed, not forgoing the pain of
death on a cross. In every way, Jesus
felt our humanity as we do, with friends to help him along, and with friends
who abandoned him in his hour of need.
Even after his death, the Son of God does something new that
is also very embodied. He rose from the
dead, not as a ghost, but as a fully fleshed-out being. He comes to his disciples to show them this
risen body, a real thing they could touch and see, as real as their own bodies. God made the body of Jesus live again, made its
flesh alive, made this Messiah one who conquered the death of the body.
That God would choose this particular embodied way of
bringing about new life makes us know that God has a very high opinion of our
bodies. The human body is worth bringing new life to. The human body carried
the Messiah into the world in the woman Mary. The human body gave a home to the
Son of God, not as an angel, not as a spirit of God, but as a flesh and blood
man. That man Jesus lived as a human
being, fully in the world of people, celebrating, ministering, having all the
emotions and experiences of his friends.
As Christians, we should embrace our bodies as parts of the
creation that God called good, that God saw fit to bring back to new life. Just as Jesus embodies the grace of God for
us, we too can bring that grace to others.
Jesus lived his life showing us that food and drink are given to nourish
us, that you can live a life in the body that glorifies God, and that you can
be close to God even in the throes of bodily ills and even death.
Jesus taught the disciples that it wasn’t what went into the
body that defiled it, but what came out of it—hatefulness, spite, envy, and
negative thoughts about others and ourselves.
Those are the evils Jesus asked his disciples to curb when they asked
who would be first in heaven. Those are the evils he called his followers to give
up, when they could not imagine their messiah being persecuted and brought to
death on a cross.
Constantly Jesus calls those he healed to be part of their
healing—“Do you want to be healed?” he asked and he asks us now, by showing his
own feet and hands and side. Do you see
where he underwent death? And if so, can you now participate in his
resurrection?
Jesus eats some broiled fish with his disciples, again being
centered in his body, being human in new life.
Jesus totally accepts his body, but his body does not forget the evil
done to it, as it continues to carry the scars.
Our bodies carry the wear and tear of our lives too, as we age. God does not ask us to forget where we have
been, but to remember, and then to go on.
Can you accept your body as part of God’s creation, loving it
as God loves it? Can you bring the love
of Christ to your body, as Christ loved his own body? Can you be resurrected in your body to a life
of new creation?
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